Many women report significant discomfort during the insertion of an IUD, some even likening it to the pain of childbirth. For one woman, her experience was particularly troubling; despite having conversations with her doctor about her pain tolerance, she felt that her concerns were minimized, especially as a Black woman. There is a pressing need for greater transparency regarding the discomfort associated with IUD insertion.
After almost a year of adjustment, she chose to keep her IUD due to its effectiveness and the convenience of not needing to take a daily pill. Additionally, it plays a role in lowering her risk of cervical cancer, an important consideration given her history of high-grade precancerous cells. The mere presence of the IUD provides her with reassurance.
LIN C., 34
New York City
“I discovered that open communication significantly helped ease my discomfort.”
At age 23, I learned about IUDs from my ob-gyn as an alternative to the Nuvaring. I selected the Mirena IUD for its simplicity and compatibility with my insurance. Although I felt nervous on the day of insertion, the clear communication with my doctor made managing the discomfort much easier.
Later, I transitioned to Liletta and recently opted to have it removed since my husband and I are planning to conceive. The low-hormone option worked well for me, providing benefits without significant side effects.
EMILY L., 29
Tallahassee, Florida
“The nurse’s dismissive attitude made the situation worse, insisting, ‘It’s not that bad.’
My experience during the IUD insertion was fraught with extreme pain and a lack of compassion from the nurse. Despite my doctor recommending the IUD, the painful procedure and the dismissive treatment I received led me to decline further use.
I encourage anyone considering an IUD to do their research on healthcare providers to ensure they receive respectful and supportive care throughout the process.
ROSA P., 24
Brooklyn
“I reluctantly opted for an IUD because I felt a responsibility to protect my future.”
Seeking both birth control and relief from period pain and ovarian cysts, I decided to get an IUD. However, the insertion was uncomfortable and led to complications such as excessive bleeding and increased cyst formation. Subsequent consultations with different doctors revealed potential side effects that had not been disclosed to me prior to the procedure.
Reflecting on my journey, I felt pressured into the decision and wish I had been made more aware of the risks involved.
Undergoing a distressing procedure like an IUD insertion can be a disheartening experience. It’s essential to remember that one healthcare provider’s perspective shouldn’t be the definitive word. Seeking multiple opinions and finding a provider who genuinely listens to your concerns can make a significant difference.
Mackenzie D., a 29-year-old from New York City, shared her challenging experiences with IUD insertions, describing the process as almost barbaric. She felt faint and endured excruciating pain during both insertions. Despite the intense discomfort, she still recommends the IUD to her friends for its benefits, such as lighter periods and minimal physical side effects.
Maria D., also from New York City, had a similarly harrowing experience. After enduring severe cramps and discomfort following both Mirena and Skyla insertions—where her gynecologist dismissed her concerns—she ultimately decided to remove the IUD after a year of relentless pain. Even after trying a different IUD, she chose to forgo them altogether due to the ongoing discomfort.
Mari H., a 37-year-old from Atlanta, dreads the day she must have her IUD removed after a traumatic insertion experience. She likened the pain to post-birth sensations, but without the relief of an epidural. The lack of preparation and empathy from her medical providers left her feeling overwhelmed and unsupported during the process.
These narratives underscore the importance of self-advocacy and listening to your body when considering an IUD. While some women report positive experiences, others endure significant pain and discomfort. It’s vital to ask questions, seek support, and prioritize your well-being. Above all, your body deserves to be treated with the utmost care and respect, regardless of what medical providers may recommend.
